We are going to meet up this weekend in the apartment building where I live with my boyfriend. We live together but have not done the physical contact yet. He has said that he is not sure he wants to be with me in the future but doesn’t want to break up.
This is confusing to me. He’s a great guy and I feel connected to him. We met at work. I wasn’t looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, but that is what we became. I never thought that marriage was in the cards, but now I am so excited about where this relationship is going and hopeful that he’ll be by my side for the rest of my life.
But after we’ve hung out many times at the apartment building, he always asks me to do things. This weekend, we are going to get a pizza. He always says it’s for fun, but I know it’s because he wants to “be” with me. I’m not sure what to do. We live in different cities but I would like to live together someday because it seems like we have always been connected to each other.
He has spent time with friends of mine and even asked one of them to take him out a couple times. But he’s not trying. He’s not telling me what is going on. I’m scared about being in this relationship for a long time, and hoping he’ll change his mind or that he’ll learn to be himself for us both.